Ken, my brother, feeling you're a man like to me, only 'slightly' more experienced, I know you will down play this. Though I believe that those of us who benefit from it can't say it enough, and even though speaking for others can be tricky. I think I'm going to risk it here. YAHUWEH has blessed you with great wisdom, and I know those others on this board feel the same way. I feel that our beloved dad has blessed us all greatly in leading us to you. Your heart for our lives is enormous, and most of the time I can't even believe how brilliant you an Yada are. I want to thank you Ken, and Yada, for always having the right thing to say. For constantly heeding the voice of our god. Praise YAHUWEH for providing for you, and praise you both for being humble enough to listen to our dad's wisdom.
Now I would like to add to your statement. Only in heaven are things black, and white. Good, and bad. This is a world of grey, and our god is a god of moderation, and compassion. You can tell when you are following well When you are wandering STRIAGHT down the NARROW "centre" of all possible paths. Sometimes I feel like in our zealousness to follow YAHUshua we are ready to proclaim that in order to avoid pagan symbols we should cut down all phallic trees, and burn them. Remember what Ken said about all days belonging to YAH. There is nothing wrong with celebrating the season. As long a you cut out the ridiculousness, I mean no one needs 300 dollars worth of presents every year, but at the same time:
kp wrote:“Hey, it’s cold outside; how about some hot chocolate?”
Get together with your family. Use the 25th because they are used to it. Have a meal, and praise YAHUWEH before, after, and any other time during that period that you feel you should. Just make it plain that it's not christmas, it's winter. No wreaths, and trees, but yes to yummy treats (you know except for the hot cross buns). You have to remember that the torah is a protection for us an not salvation, and if you press to hard you are diving into legalism.
and just to through out another quote that really shone for me:
Icy wrote:I would caution that you ease your families into getting rid of the pagan stuff. Let them have it, but teach them (lovingly). "Hey honey, did you ever wonder where the chirstmas tree came from?" Then, when Yahweh's Miqra's come around, celebrate them and teach about those. Use that time to show that Yahuweh does not want us to have do things the way the pagan's do. Show that he does not change. Your family might take a long time to get past these holidays, but pray for them and try to teach and turn the holiday away from a religious thing and make it more of "family time".
I mean I feel the same as all of you, but I live isolated from any other believers, and my family is very atheistic. I don't have control over my house hold. I'm subordinate to my mother still. So, my anti-christmas thrust was in telling them that I don't want presents, I won't decorate the tree, and most importantly that they understand my position. "And now, about and concerning, regarding and on account of, because of and with respect to the matters concerning food sacrificed in dedication to false god’s, polytheistic deities and idols: we see and perceive, observe and witness, know and experience, recognise and respect, understand and take note of, comprehend and discern, pay attention to and discover, notice and examine, inspect and behold that concerning this, “All of us, individually and collectively, have and hold, acquire and receive, own and possess ‘precise and correct knowledge, perception and discernment, intellectual understanding and insight’.” This “precise and correct knowledge, perception and discernment, intellectual understanding and insight” puffs up and inflates pride and arrogance, haughtiness and conceited, exaggerated self-importance and groundless self-conception; but nevertheless, the brotherly love and affection, good will, esteem and benevolence builds up and prepares, sets up and plants, restores and establishes, founds and constructs, erects and promotes, confirms and produces growth by edifying and strengthening, enabling, instructing and improving."